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May 25·edited May 25Liked by Sara Benincasa

This was very much needed for reasons I won't bore anyone else with. But thank you, Sara.

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May 26Liked by Sara Benincasa

This finally got me to subscribe (I was already subscribed to your Patreon).

My paternal grandparents had macular degeneration--one dry, one wet, though I don't remember which one had which. My dad succumbed to kidney cancer at age 65, so his vision never deteriorated to that point--he only needed reading glasses on occasion. I am fortunate enough to have inherited his good vision, but being in my early 40s, I fully expect that I'll need readers within the next decade. I just hope that's the worst my vision will get.

Both my husband's and my sides of the family have had a lot of loss in the last 7-plus years. Relatedly, Chidi's monologue from The Good Place series finale really moved me, especially in light of all that. It moved me so much, last year, I got a tattoo of an ocean wave on my upper back below my neck with the words "The wave returns to the ocean" around it. As a cradle Catholic-turned-atheist who doesn't believe in an afterlife, that explanation for what happens after you die made the most sense to me out of anything I'd ever heard.

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Thank you so so much for your generosity and kindness

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